Attract Women By Playing Hard To Get

By: Alex Coulson

There are many tips available on the internet to help you attract women . As much as these tips indeed can help you attract more women (easily), you can attract women with just one effortless technique. 

You ready for this?

Be busy.

That’s it. You can get a woman’s attention and boost her desire by having a busy life, or at least appearing to have a busy life.

You’re more likely to receive more attention and desire from her by giving the impression that you’re busy.

Here’s why…

For many men, the problem is not getting a woman’s phone number. Maybe they have fine-tuned their skills and have moved past that obstacle and can easily get the number.

But, many guys still struggle with the “post-number” stage when they need to follow up and actually get a date. The problem is usually that the chemistry and attraction created during the first conversation have diminished somewhat. As a woman turns her attention to other matters in her daily life, your call slowly becomes less of her focal point.

This is a completely normal occurrence. No, the solution is not to call her straight away after the first conversation. You simply need to rebuild her interest, desire and attraction.

Stimulate her desire again, and you can do this best by remembering a common tip yet applying it with a twist. Women tend to usually be more attracted to those with more active, exciting lives. Peak her curiosity by showing her that you are a “busy guy.”

A woman will be more interested in you if it appears that there is a lot going on and requiring your attention. Suddenly, your personal “worth” increases as it is obvious you are not anxiously waiting to see her again or sitting by the telephone waiting for the call.

Also, she may even think you are dating or at least talking to other women, which increases her desire for your attention. Again, a little competition, whether present or not in reality, increases the challenge on her end and your value in her eyes.

Wouldn’t it be better to have her waiting by the phone for you call? How can you keep that attraction there after you get her number? Here’s how to do it.

During that first call, be sure to communicate that there are just quite a few things requiring your attention during the upcoming week and, as much as you wish you did, you just don’t have that much free time on your hands. Emphasize that you would like to see her but that it has “been extremely busy lately.” You want to avoid giving the impression that you do not want to see her but do not apologize for your busy life. Just imply with delicacy that you wish you had the time to see her that week, but just do not.

Now, you can go ahead and plan for a date during that conversation for a time when things “slow down.” Once the date is set and the plans are made, end the call and get off the phone since you have “things to do” or “need to be somewhere.” Do not be too detailed, though, but make it sound fairly important or interesting, boost her curiosity.

Once you are on the date, talk a little about some of the activities that have been taking up your time lately. The point is to make it clear that you are a demanding and busy guy but that you do want to include her in your “schedule.”

This approach is extremely successful. The last thing you want to do after getting her phone number is to give the impression that you have nothing else going on in your life!

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