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Dating Tips: How To Tell If She's Interested
By: David DeAngelo
OK, I have a fast trick question for you.
That's right, I said a fast TRICK question.
How can you tell if a woman is attracted you?
Answer quickly.
So what gives?
Why am I asking you a trick question?
Simple.
Because I'm trying to make you THINK.
I'm sure that, just like me, you've studied a hundred dating
tips and articles that say things like:
"If she tilts her head to one side and strokes
her neck, that's a sign of interest..."
"If she licks her lips in a craving manner,
that means she's interested in you..."
"If she laughs a lot, makes optimistic eye contact,
and touches you often, then she likes you..."
DUH!
I remember when I first read all this stuff.
I thought to myself "Wow, cool! I must have been
missing these hints because I didn't know to look for them. Now I'll know when
a woman is attracted to me..."
Well, there was ONE SMALL problem...
The problem is that women exhibit these MAJOR INTEREST signals
in about 1 of 1,000 interactions with men...
And there was one BIG problem...
That trouble was that none of the damn dating tips I read
said a single thing about how to MAKE women give you these signals.
In other words, what I realized is that regular guys like me
who don't get "approached" by women need to learn not only WHAT to
look for, but, more importantly, how to actually CREATE ATTRACTION in women so
they GAVE me these signals in the FIRST PLACE.
So let me share with you some dating tips on how to MAKE
women feel ATTRACTION for you... and then I'll share some thoughts on what to
LOOK FOR to tell if a woman is interested.
And my ideas will be a WEEEEEE BIT different than the ones
you read in your flirting books.
OK, so you're out at a bar with a few friends, and it's time
to meet some fascinating women.
You look around, and none of the hot young babes in there
seem to be tilting their heads to one side, looking you in the eye, and licking
their lips... so you decide to DO SOMETHING.
What do most guys do in this position?
Either:
1) Nothing, because they're scared, or...
2) Something typical, like ask a girl to dance, or if he can
buy her a drink.
If you're guilty of doing these, raise your hand.
Then take your raised hand, and smack yourself silly. Not
too hard. But silly.
Here's a thought for you...
If you put 100 guys in a bar with one beautiful women
sitting alone, and you say to all 100 of the guys "Hey guys, which one of
you can stroll over to that woman and do something to make that woman feel a
SEXUAL ATTRACTION for you?"... I'd say that
if you're LUCKY, one of them will say that he can do it.
In other words, for most guys, the idea of walking up to a
girl they don't know and doing something that will TRIGGER an attraction is
completely outside of their universe.
This is one of the reasons why guys do things like asking
girls to dance, buying them drinks, etc.
Now, something you must appreciate when it comes to women
and ATTRACTION is that women don't feel ATTRACTION for WUSSIES.
ATTRACTION isn't a CHOICE.
It isn't rational (at least, on the surface).
But once you start to "get it", everything
changes. Your entire standpoint changes once you "get it", and your
results change instantly as well.
So here's a dating tip for you to try:
MESS WITH WOMEN.
That's right "mess with" them.
Tease.
Bust on.
Be difficult.
Why?
Because it INSTANTLY communicates that:
1) You could care less what she thinks of you.
2) You're a fun person.
3) You're unpredictable.
4) You're a bit of a "wild card"
5) You GET IT.
Now, you might be shaking your head right now and saying
"That's doesn't make any sense. Why would a woman feel attracted to me if
I mess with her instead of being nice?".
That's a good question.
But for now, take the hand that you slapped yourself with
earlier, and smack yourself again.
Good.
I want you to STOP following your "be nice and kiss
ass" instincts when you first meet a woman, and instead practice MESSING
WITH HER.
Make fun of something.
Go to hand her something, and then pull it away at the last
second.
Shake your head in anguish and tell her that she's screwing
up her chances with you.
Say something Cocky & Funny, then turn around and walk
away before she can react to your face.
Can ya feel me, dog?
Now the good stuff...
HOW TO TELL IF SHE'S INTERESTED
Well this is what you were looking for, so here it is...
I'm going to give you a stupid-proof method for knowing
whether or not a woman is interested in you.
Here it is:
1) You engage her.
2) She engages you back.
Yes, that's it. Please stop the round of applause long
enough that I can finish. You can clap later.
I know that this sounds a little "Duh-ish", but
stay with me here.
If I stroll into a restaurant, and the hostess asks me how
many are in my party, and I reply with "Well, there are three of us. I
guess there will be FOUR if YOU join us..." and she laughs at my joke,
then IT'S ON!
If I'm standing at the bar, and the woman next to me bumps
into my arm, and I turn and say "Hey, watch it, OK? Keep some space here,
I need at least a foot of room..." in a serious manner of voice... and she
starts playing along by smiling and moving away from me then back again teasingly,
then IT'S ON!
If I'm talking to a woman that I met at the magazine rack,
and I ask her "What's with that enormous purse of yours? You got a dog in
there or something?" and she starts smiling and making excuses, then IT'S
ON!
In a nutshell, what I'm trying to say is:
1) Stop looking around for signals from women that they're
"interested" in you.
2) Stop CARING whether or not a particular woman is attracted
to you.
3) Instead, start TRIGGERING the interest, and watching to
see if women ENGAGE. If they do, then assume that IT'S ON!
As long as you use how she's responding to what YOU do as
your measure, then you'll have a MUCH easier time spotting the "she wants
me" clues...
...Because YOU ARE THE ONE CAUSING THEM.
Now...
...if you want DOZENS AND DOZENS of great dating tips and
ideas for making women feel that commanding "chemistry" with you,
then go download a copy of my online ebook here:
Free Dating Tips Newsletter And Download eBook
This tool took me countless hours to develop...
Stop beating your head against the wall, and start taking
advantage of the years I've spent learning this stuff. You'll be SO glad you
did.
And I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend,
David DeAngelo
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