3 Reasons Why Having Women In Your Life Will Dramatically Increase You Chances On Attracting Other Women
By: Swinggcat
Today I'm
going to share with you something that I talk about in my book. If you aren't currently
doing what I am about to tell you, DOING IT WILL increase your success with women
a hundred and fifty percent...if not more.
Whether you
are looking for one-night-stands, threesomes, an amazing girlfriend...or whatever,
implementing what you're about to learn will redound in a colossal step towards
your goal.
Whether you
believe yourself to be a slithering lounge lizard, a exceptional Casanova, a
stand up guy, or a dilapidated ejaculate, if you are not yet doing what I am about
to tell you, doing it will turbo charge your current success with women.
NOT DOING
what I'm about to tell you is one of the chief roadblocks preventing men from
ATTRACTING women.
What you
are about to learn is probably nothing you haven't already heard. It, however,
is one of the most ignored skills -especially by guys learning how to ATTRACT
and be more successful with women.
Before I
tell you what this secret is, I am going to share a little story with you. When
I first became serious about mastering, what I used to perceive as, the ego
bruising “social minefields,” in order to succeed with the women I most wanted,
I befriended many guys trying, as well, to get this area of their life out of
the way.
Some of
these guys considered themselves to be gutless little worms. Others thought of themselves
as full blown Casanovas. And a few felt like Average Joes. Some were amazing at
quickly getting women into bed; while a few, alas, couldn't, even if their life
depended on it, talk to a woman.
All of us
became really close and formed a squad with one goal in mind: To become more
successful with women. I made a lot of good friends, and witnessed a few of
them do some amazing things, ranging from making out with women in bars to
occasionally having sex with a woman they had just met.
in spite of
what looked to be great success, there was a dark, discouraging cloud brooding
over us: None of us had any female friends. Some of the group had female
friends, but got rid of them, thinking that they would take away time from attracting
women. A few had never had a female friend. When we went out we never were just
hanging out. Our only goal was to generate attraction in women. We did not have
a single scrap of interest interacting with women we felt weren't ATTRACTED to
us. When entering a bar, women could feel our hunter energy, a pack wolves
waiting to attack. Even if one of us made out with a woman, the night would usually
end with just us guys.
Are you
starting to get what's wrong with this picture?
Good.
In my book,
Real World Seduction, I talk about the significance of making five female
friends that fit the archetype of the sort of woman you strive to ATTRACT.
Before
breaking down the reasons for making at least five female friends, I'm going to
get crystal clear about what I mean by “making friends with women.”
If you're
someone who sits around with their female friends, giving each other hot pink manicures
and pedicures, listening to their troubles with men, you're in big trouble. Being
friends with women is not about you playing the big passive bottom in their “bitter
at men” gang bang. The only exception to this is if you are gay. My point:
Being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat your guy
friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you act like you are
their girlfriend, they interpret it as an unconvincing pretense used to get
into their pants.
To recap:
Being friends with women is about acting the way you would around your guy friends.
Let's
discuss the reasons for making friends with women.
Reason # 1:
You Will Be More Relaxed Around Women In General:
Men who
don't have female friends are usually nervous and uncomfortable around women, causing
women to feel uncomfortable around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up
by the common scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like a
cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes anxious and uncomfortable in his own skin.
This results in her becoming nervous and uncomfortable. In her book, this will
take you straight to the top of the Creep-O-Meter.
Trying to
make women feel comfortable around you when you are uncomfortable in your own skin
is usually a losing battle - and often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.
The biggest
part of making women feel comfortable is being comfortable in your own skin and
around women. The quickest road I know to becoming comfortable in your own skin
and around women is to make female friends.
Reason # 2:
You Will No Longer Need An Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized
Material To Be Successful With Women:
I know some
guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially getting women attracted
to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed material, things take a floundering
turn for the awkward as they collapse completely. One common scenario is that a
guy will meet a woman and succeed in generating the emotion inside her of
wanting, chasing, and reaching for more of him through using memorized
material. She willingly gives him her number. When he calls she has jamais vu
(jamais vu is the opposite of déjà vu: it is the illusion that you are
encountering something you have already experienced for the first time). It is
like she is talking to a total stranger and the emotion of her feeling attraction
towards him is long gone. Since he doesn't know what to do outside the realm of
using memorized material, she treats him like a random telemarketer trying to
solicit her, cutting the phone call unusually short and hanging up. The problem
is that this guy neither understands women nor knows how to act around them.
One of the best ways for developing these skills is by being friends with women
- especially the type you strive to succeed with. Once you have taken the time to
implement the skills you learned from my book in the real world and have made a
few female friends, you'll start to notice something cool happening in your
interactions with women: After talking to a woman for a few minutes you'll know
exactly how to produce attraction with her, without having to use rehearsed
material. I'm not against using memorized material - in fact, I'm a fan of it.
But if you can only interact with women using memorized material, you are in
big trouble.
Reason # 3:
Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other Women:
Women are psychic
when comes to knowing whether or not a man is frequently around women. Women
assume that if other females hang around you, then you must be a cool guy. They
assume, likewise, that if no females hang around you, something might be wrong
with you - bad thing! This is pretty much herd mentality - go figure!
One of the
big problems with a lot of the material on how to attract women is that it only
focuses on making you feel more confident about yourself. As, alas, you might
know, you can do all the affirmations in the world, but if you don't have the
social skills to attract women, your out of luck.
Another
blunder guys make when learning how to attract women is only memorizing
material to say to women. Only memorizing material without understanding why
you are doing it is a makeshift solution to attracting and succeeding with
women. By just memorizing a few pick up lines, you're cheating yourself out of
really learning how to attract women. My book has hundreds of powerful things to
say to women. But these are only examples to help you learn the skills needed
for attracting women. My belief is that people learn from a mixture of explanations
and examples. If you ever purchase a product on attracting women that only
gives you explanations but no examples or examples - think pick up lines - but
no explanations, you are being cheated - big time!
My
book takes you through hundreds of real world examples and thoroughly breaks
down the structure and purpose of these examples. If you put forth the effort
studying my book, you will never have to memorize another person's pick up
lines or material again. Because you will understand the underlying structure
behind generating attraction with women, allowing you to come up with your own
material and lines. So if you haven't picked up my book, do it today!
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