How To Attract Women: By Being a Bad Boy
By: James
It seems that when it comes to men chasing women, we guys are separated
into two camps: the nice guys... and the bad boys. This is a dreadfully intense
way of looking at things, making men think that they have to make some huge verdict
with stern repercussions, like choosing between the Jedi and Dark Side, good
and evil, black and white. But what about the middle ground? If you're a nice
guy who puts women on a pedestal and lets them get away with anything, you definitely
can't let them keep doing this. But if you're a bad guy who treats women like
yesterday's trash, you're not going to do much better also. So there's got to
be some negotiation. Here are my seven confirmed techniques for getting women
by taking on your "inner bad boy"--while still allowing yourself to
be you.
1. Surprise them.
If there's one thing girl’s love, it's a surprise. There's nothing greater than
keeping them on their toes. Do this by going against common norms; for instance,
giving her the "black power fist" when she's expecting a handshake.
Or walk up to her and dare her to a game of thumb wars. As you're having a
great discussion, say you've got to run off. This all goes a long ways towards
making her heart quiver, and making YOU more attractive--without being a total
douche bag.
2. Do the unexpected.
Unfortunately, nice guys constantly do what they're SUPPOSED to do. They say
hello, ask genuinely how a girl is, and gawk in awe as she says she's a model.
BORING. Nah, you've got to free your inner bad boy by doing the things you're
NOT supposed to do. Show her you're cool, show her you're bold: flirt
shamelessly, grin at a sexual statement, tease unabashedly. You don't have to
be a total jerk to do these things, just a guy who's confident that he'll get
away with things that aren't "the norm". Girls adore to not know what
to expect, so do the unexpected!
3. Be a rebel.
I'm not saying to break the law, but don't always go by the regulations. Show
her you're fun, break rules here and there. So what if there are people watching!
Give her a big kiss in the center of the street. So what if boardwalk is
closed? Take her for a dreamy midnight wander Who cares if the speed limit is
50? Drive her at 75 and watch her shout in enjoyment. You don't have to be a
complete jerk to show a girl some fun.
4. Get physical.
If you're not already at a sports club or into martial arts, now is the time.
Girls worship a guy who can kick butt. It's the element of the bad boy that
makes them feel secure and protected. So get to work on your body--nothing says
enticing like a man in shape who can kick some butt.
5. Make her feel safe.
Show her your confidence, your self-assuredness by taking her hand, walking on
the side of the walkway closest to the road, and never backing down from any position.
That's not a permit to get into fights, just to make her feel protected.
6. Tease.
This is a approach you can't go wrong with. Bad boys never let a girl get away
with undesirable behavior. If she's talking like she's the greatest person
ever, they'll joke, "Man, if this lady's ego gets any larger we're all going
to have to evacuate!" If she says she's a model, say a bit to the effect
of, "Oh yeah? Is that it?" And show her your worth by saying,
"Listen, I'm afraid I'm not going to be able to wait around. Your mouth is
destroying my ear drums." In other words, don't be scared to gag around
and put her in her place!
7. Develop attitude.
I just can’t stress enough how critical having a charming, confident attitude
is. You don’t care what others say. You don’t care what others believe. No
matter how a woman reacts, it just blows right over you. That’s because you’re
always in power. No woman—whether gorgeous, well-liked, or loaded—has power
over you. You don’t need anyone, you’re not reliant on anyone, and you don’t
have to stick to anyone. If she thinks she's too good for you, you get right up
and shift to the next girl, because you're a catch and you know it!
Remember, you don't have to be a absolute bad guy to get the
girls. Just clinch the winning characteristics of bad boys, and you'll be facing
up women left and right!
Don't forget, if you want to learn more about using "the
inner bad boy" to attract more women, visit my website by CLICKING HERE
Now it's YOUR turn!
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About the author:
James is the writer of the newest edition of "How to Be Irresistible to
Women PREMIUM.” His year of dating knowledge and global travel have tutored him
in the art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a sophisticated
approach to dating and increasing real relationships required for the modern
man.
The "How to Be Irresistible to Women" package offers single men a
dynamic and complete tool-kit to attract women and set up an sincere and helpful
relationship. You can learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams
at by trying out my new program: How to Be Irresistible to Women
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