How To Attract Women
By: John Alexader
We've all had that special woman in our lives. You know...
the one with the sweet qualities, the really nice hair and a perfect face. She
dates the more "expert" guys... but how can you get her to be attracted to you?
While men are above all attracted to women based on their looks, a woman finds
a man attractive because of his personality. An ideal man is an alpha male
who's positive in himself and not afraid to take the lead and get what he wants
out of life.
Ironically, what this means then is that the top way for a girl to like you is
when she feels like she has EARNED you.
That's because to get a girl to like you, you should come from a mindset of
high value. Never come from a position of neediness.
So the best attitudes to have towards any one exacting woman are:
1. Nonchalance.
2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By that I mean, if she
likes you that's amazing, but if not, there are tons of other chicks out there that
are equally as great as she is.)
The bottom line is that a woman should never be a challenge for you. Instead
you should be a challenge for her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can also get rid of
neediness by building up your social network. Make friends with as many women
as you can. (Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can... don't confine yourself only to dating
"that one special girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going through your mind when
you're around that special woman is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's unique!"
Having an abundance of women in your life will resolve that problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are attracted to a guy, she too
feels attraction. Psychologically, this is known as the "social
proof" phenomenon... and it's much more commanding in women than men.
Ever noticed how your female friends salivate over the guy at the corner of the
bar who's got four babes at his table? That's social proof in action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and to feel something strong
for her.
Here's the key though... you must always repeat to yourself that there are LOTS
of other women out there who are just as amazing as that girl you really like.
If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind, then that gives her authority
over you, and, ironically, makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's wonderful. Just remember that lots of
other girls are marvelous too. That way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her earn your attention, and
hang out with as many women as possible... those are the three secrets for how
to get a girl to be attracted to you.
John Alexander is the author of How to Become
an Alpha Male , a seduction success system for men. Discover the excitement and
pleasure of having gorgeous, horny women automatically drawn to you like a
magnet.
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