How to be a Pick-Up
Artist (PUA)
By: Gambler
A Pick-Up
Artist (PUA) is someone who has acquired the skill of seducing women who are
not in his social circle. In the past,
picking up a woman in a bar or club or even coffee shop is a skill you either
had or didn’t have, and that was the way it would be for your whole life. Now, guys without natural ability can still
learn how to be incredible with women by becoming Pick-up Artists. Here are the ways that an average guy can
become a pick-up artis and general tips on how to be a pua:
- Join Online Communities
There are
many websites which act as online meeting places for aspiring Pick-Up Artists. Free resources, advice, and forums are things
which will be valuable to someone wanting to get an introduction and learn
something without paying for products or training. Browsing on Google for “pick up artist” will
bring up some of the most popular sites.
2. Join a Local Lair
In all
major cities, from London to LA to Sydney, there are local
“lairs” – groups of local guys that organize social events and come together in
the interest of improving their skill with women. If you embark on the journey to becoming a
pick-up artist, many of your existing friends won’t be able to help you and
might even hold you back. Finding local
guys that share your goals will be a more positive influence. A list of global lairs is available on the
Bristol Lair website. You can find guys
to go out with and learn from and will make new friends.
3. Study Theory
There are
many different approaches to pick-up, and there are many different
theories. Lots of material is available
for free online, and most of the most famous organisations and personalities in
the community – Mystery, David DeAngelo, Tyler, etc. have products available
for purchase.
4. Go to a PUA training workshop
or boot camp
Live
training is both the best and most expensive way to learn to be a PUA. Studying from guys that get results, and who
will be able to look at you and know exactly what you are doing right and wrong
is very powerful. Typically you can go
to a workshop/seminar which is where you get to hear the theory, or you can go
to a boot camp where you will have a workshop and then be taken out into the
field and use what you have been taught.
A boot camp is much more valuable because of this.
5. Advice from a Master Pick-Up
Artist (MPUA)
Don’t just
read online forums, don’t just buy all the products, and don’t just pay for
every single live training event you come across. You need to balance learning theory, applying
it, and humanizing your approach. Go out and put into practice “in-field” as
much as possible. You’ll learn more from
2 weeks of going out than from 6 months of theory.
The ability
to seduce women successfully and almost at will is something that will make any
man happy. For guys that were never good
with women and were discontented with this area of their life, the change will
be something that impacts their well-being, confidence, and has benefits in
many areas of their life.
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