Learn to say "NO" to women
By: Derek Vitalio
Don’t be afraid to say “no” to a woman.
One of the keys to having successful relationships with women is learning to
say “no” to them.
If she wants the keys to your apartment and you’re not ready to give them to
her yet, don’t be afraid to say “no”.
If she wants you to drive across the city to do her hair and other errands,
and you were planning on visiting your friends, don’t be afraid to day “no”.
If she wants to go see her Aunt on your vacation and you don’t, don’t be
afraid to say “no”.
If she wants to buy a new car and you know you can’t afford it, don’t be
afraid to say “no”.
The word “no” is one of the most important words you can learn to get
respect from women. At first she may pout and try to fight you, but once she
sees that you’re a strong man who sticks by his decisions, she will come to
respect those decisions and will come to respect you.
Never do something that you know is the wrong thing to do or change your
mind just to please a woman. Stand up for yourself. Stand up for what you
believe should be done and what you’re willing to do and not do. Don’t be a
pushover to a woman’s whims.
ACT congruently with your “no”. Because if you say “no” while a moment later
caving into her demands, you come across as whining and complaining. Stand by
your decisions instead of acting wishy-washy and inconsistently.
Set the rules and boundaries and stick by them. Set the terms of the
relationship and enforce them. You don’t need to win every time. But you do
need to take your stand.
Sure, you should always listen to your woman and take her opinions and needs
into account. But in the end, make your own decisions and stand up for them.
Remain true to yourself and your best judgment.
For even more on building great relationships with attractive women, listen
to my Blissnosis Master Program. It’s all about how to have a great sex life
with a woman - because after the seduction is over, you want to have the best
relationship sex you deserve.
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Until next time,
Derek Vitalio
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