Opening and Conversation Tips
By: NeoSpartan
Having trouble opening and carrying a conversation???????
This is one of those things that really affects a lot of guys
and, like all else, takes actual effort to fix. HOWEVER, there are a
few things you can do make the learning curve less steep.
1st and foremost having trouble walking up to girl,
or groups of girls, you don’t know is usually because of fear. Which is
manifested by freezeing, getting nervous, anxious, thinking all the
negative things that she can say, etc…
Now the best way to deal with this is to “force” yourself into
opening to girls. This is good advice. BUT there is way of making this
“jump in to the cold water” easier. You see instead of thinking, “I
have to get her #”, think “I am just gonna talk with her”. That’s it,
don’t make any expectations of any type of outcomes, just go talk as if
you where talking with one of your friends. No pressure, no agenda, no
nothing. This simple thing will get rid of the “anxiety” most people
who can’t approach experience. Go ahead give this a run, and you will
see how easy it will be to talk to girls. Because since you are not
putting pressure on yourself of getting her #, nor you are expecting an
outcome.
As a matter of fact you will find that the conversation will go smoothly and very natural.
Remember, you can’t just read it, think about it and then
BOOM!! Its Done. No, you have to get out there start up short 3-5minute
conversations in every opportunity. This can happen anywhere fellas…..
remember no pressure just talk.