By: Derek Vitalio

A lot of times we get discouraged because we are too hard on ourselves. We’re always beating ourselves up for not living up to the perhaps unrealistic goals our imaginations have dreamed up for us.

I look at it differently. You are courageous! You’ve gone into a territory that 97% of guys wouldn’t dare, just by reading up on taking control of your life with women. You looked fear in the eye and took action in spite of it. And even with just the littlest bit of knowledge you are already WAY ahead of most guys.

So how about congratulating yourself for once. You’ve already made an investment that has put you ahead of most of the guys out there, and I really do have great respect for you in that.

By: Derek Vitalio

Most guys think of the seduction as when the woman is back at your place and you need to get her clothes off.

But seduction can be so much more than getting a woman undressed.

Picture this- she’s alone in your room. She’s forming a first impression of you. Her suggestibility is high.

This is EXACTLY the time you want to start programming her attitudes about sex with you.

After all, you went to all the trouble to get her into bed… why not transform every woman you sleep with into your fantasy?

Cleopatra got Julius Ceasar to sleep with her the first night he met her, but the real seduction, the one that made him her slave, began later.

By: Derek Vitalio

I find most guys interesting to talk to. I can always find something I have in common with them – chicks, computers, games, sci-fi, chicks, sports, chicks, politics, chicks and so on.

However, to women what most guys talk about to other guys is… well…

MORE BORING THAN WATCHING PAINT PEEL OFF THE WALLS!

And I think most guys, at least on some subconscious level, know this.

That’s why when you’re with a woman you don’t go on and on about guy topics, if you’re smart. Because you know you’ll BORE her.

That’s why a lot of guys on dates avoid guy talk. But at the same time, they don’t know how to speak girl talk either.

By: Derek Vitalio

Today I’m going to address the issue of finding those elusive “Perfect 10s”.

Maybe you want a girl with particular physical traits, like a color of hair, a round butt, a classy dresser, or a pretty smile.

But most super attractive girls are not that great. Many of them are not very fun people. And then there’s the drama and head issues. And many, because of their beauty, never had to learn to be good in bed.