By: David DeAngelo

I have a question for you...

When you get a hold of a woman's number and you're picking up the phone to call and "ask her out", does it trouble you?

Do you get anxious?

Do you get nervous?

Do you start thinking about precisely what you're going to say, how you're going to say it, how to deal with her rejecting you... etc.?

All male-female relationships began at some point as a convention between two strangers. In most societies and conditions, it is the male who is accountable for openly initiating such a meeting, although the female may well be complicit to a larger or lesser extent. Here we talk about specifically the art of approaching women in evening venues such as bars and night-clubs.

By: SwinggCat

<sup>Hey Guys,

This week I have a very unusual treat for you. A few guys emailed me their wish lists of things they'd like me to write about. I swear, occasionally I feel like Santa! High on their lists was a demand for a few real life examples of my techniques in battle. My feeling is that the more examples you hear and read about, the deeper your perception of my techniques will become. Put simply, genuine examples are amazing!</sup>

By: Derek Vitalio

^{If you want your woman to be sexually wild and responsive to you in bed, it’s necessary to be radically honest with your woman, with your feelings, with your present activities, and with your future plans.}

 By: David DeAngelo

^{If a woman is single, I can walk up to her and get her number in about a minute or two (if I'm in a hurry). I found out later, after running like a mad scientist on this that GETTING PHONE NUMBERS ALONE DOESNT'T EQUAL THE AMMOUNT OF SUCCESS YOU HAVE WITH WOMEN.}

By: Derek Vitalio

^{When you’re in bed with a woman, there are four main identities you can take on when making love.}

By: Swinggcat

Many a man uses his whole gamut of tricks in his proverbial bag to pick a gorgeous woman's interest.

From signifying a lightening quick wit...

... To sharing interesting stories about himself...

... To doing magic tricks like a clown out of Barnum & Bailey's festival...

... To asking her interesting questions and then sitting there quiet the way people sit in church...

^{"How should I behave on the first date? What should we chat about? How do you keep the conversation fascinating?"}

^{These are all questions that I get asked often in one way or another, and in this dating tip I'd like to lecture to the drum of this topic.}

By: Derek Vitalio

^{A lot of guys think that learning techniques and positions is what matters most in being a great lover. But they couldn’t be more wrong.}

^{The FIRST thing you need to master in the bedroom, before anything else, is how to be a dominant MAN in bed, and not an average Joe.}

^{Average Joe believes that a woman wants a man to respect her in the bedroom.}

^{Average Joe believes that a woman doesn’t want to get fucked, but that she wants to “make love”.}

^{Average Joe believes that men and women have to act equally in the bedroom in every way.}

^{Average Joe makes sure she’s not uncomfortable at any point.}

^{Average Joe always asks for permission before trying anything new.}

^{And Average Joe convinces himself that he’s found a “good girl” who doesn’t like to do all those “other things”.}

By: Derek Vitalio

^{In a sense, we are trance machines. You go to a club and you want to approach a woman and you keep running the same stubborn trance inside your head over and over like a broken record- “What do I say?” or, “She’s obviously busy with her friends.” And so on. Or maybe you’re ass is just fucking frozen there.}

^{That’s why sometimes you need a COACH.}

^{I use coaches when I need them. And I invest good money in myself.}

^{But they’re WORTH it.}

By: Derek Vitalio

^{There are two big obstacles you’ll face in becoming a successful seducer.}

<sup>The first is always seeking validation and needing acceptance from women.

The second obstacle however is your own sexual neediness. If you’re not already having sex with a woman, you’re going to feel sexually NEEDY. You’re going to be like a thirsty man walking through the desert, and when you see that oasis you’re going to run for it like a crazy person.</sup>

By: Savoy

<sup>Now we’ll discuss how to make sure she shows up in the first place and doesn’t "flake"
First, ask yourselves this:
* Have you ever made plans with a woman and not have her show up?
* Have you ever gotten a phone call earlier that day telling you that she "has to work" or "isn’t feeling well"?
* Have you ever made plans with a woman and then she told you to "call to confirm"
If any of that applies to you, you need to really pay attention here. This will banish flakes forever.</sup>

By: Derek Vitalio

^{Dominant move #1- Slam her against a door}

^{To do this, simply grab her and push her back against a door. Press yourself into her and start making out with her aggressively. This can also work on a wall, but you have to be extra careful about pushing her against a hard surface that doesn’t give (it can hurt and break her out of the moment) and a wall makes less of a “SLAM!” noise than a door does.}

By: Derek Vitalio

^{Most women feel they have constricted roles in life. They have to go to a job they find boring and dislike, go home to their television, and are mired in dull routine. They are supposed to be the “moralizing” force on society and not think about anything but plain vanilla sex.}