Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed - How To Pick Up Women

By: Joseph Matthews

Are you finding it difficult when it comes to finding, meeting, and picking up women?  If so, here are some guidelines to help you succeed in finding the women of your dreams! 

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no idea where to start?

Most of your friends probably don't know how to pick up women. Your dad probably doesn't know (and lord knows your mom couldn't tell you)! Even the dating "experts" that you see in the media wouldn't be able to give you the correct tactics on how to pick up women, because if they did - they'd never be able to appear on TV again! (Let's face it, the mainstream media is very feminist and looks down upon anything that could help guys get laid!).

The fact is:  Teaching guys how to pick up women is a delicate subject!

You want some practical advice that can really work, that you can start to use right away. Luckily, you found this article. So let's get started!

Let me first tell you what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T have to be "male model" good looking.

This is a huge mistake that almost all men make.  Little do they know that close to 85% of women place more importance on how a man makes them FEEL as opposed to how he actually LOOKS.

So if you're anxious about your looks, don't sweat it!  There's still hope.

Next, you DON'T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!

Some of the finest pick up artists I've ever met never spend more than $30 when on a date, and many of them didn't even own a car! (And if they did, it wasn't a very nice one!)

You'll find that women can be very merciful when it comes to how much money you make or spend on them, if they LIKE you! And part of picking up women is to get the girl to like you, right?

Third, you DON'T need to be a particular ethnicity or nationality, have big muscles, be famous, or any other thing you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other barrier you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

Interacting with women the right way is the only thing that matters.

Unless you're already on the verge of becoming a master pick up artist, you're probably not going to have extraordinary success right away using these tips and tactics. But if you apply these and other tactics over a period of time and learn from your experiences, you'll find your success with women will skyrocket!

In order to learn the quickest, you'll want to go out as often as you can - mainly when you're first starting.  You don't have to go to nightclubs or other high-pressure environments to meet women, but they are great "practice grounds" because there are SO MANY women there to meet and talk to.

Regardless of where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you'll get better the more times you do it!

You probably won't have much success at first when you start going to clubs, but other people will really start notice a change in you as your confidence goes up. Every success and failure in nightclubs will also helps to strengthen the things you need to do when you're picking up women, and the things you need to avoid.

And the more skill you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!

All you're doing when you go out to pick up women is gaining experience!

You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this precious experience with women.

(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN have power over your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Try and dress well - wear clothes that fit, that match, and that look good on you.  If you're desperate when it comes to fashion, get a savvy friend to help you out.

Keep in mind - you don't NEED to dress nicely to meet women, but it will make it much easier on yourself if you do!  Not only that, but the better you look, the more confident you'll feel.

Always be on the lookout for pickup opportunities.  Attractive women are all over the place, and it's always a bad idea to let an opportunity to meet one of them slip you by!

Finally, every good pick-up follows a structure. It’s a series of steps you can actually REPEAT time and time again and get parallel results.

This structure is as follows:

Find a girl.

Meet her.

Start Talking and Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

These four simple steps are all you need!  You'll find that if you can just meet the women you want and gain a bond with them, you'll easily be able to build attraction with them too.

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