The Nine Phases on how
to Seduce Women
By: Gambler
Here we
present a nine-phase cycle which covers a male-female interaction from the first
meeting of two strangers to the consummation of the interaction in sexual
intercourse.
The cycle
may occur on one evening, or over a number of meetings – in particular the
middle phases may last over several dates. The usual amount of time required
from meeting to sex is usually somewhere between 5 and 9 hours – where some of
the phases, such as the first, usually last only a few minutes
1. Open
The man
approaches the woman and initiates conversation. This phase is successfully
negotiated when the woman indicates that she is ready for the man to stay – we
call this signal the “hook-point”.
2.
Female-to-male attraction
The man
demonstrates his value to the female, taking care not to appear try-hard. The
female responds by giving indicators of interest – light touching, eye contact,
smiling etc.
3.
Male-to-female attraction
The man
baits the female into investing in the interaction through demonstrating her
own unique attractiveness – i.e. he gives her a chance to “win him over”. The
man responds by gratifying the female for her efforts – either verbally, or
through light touching etc.
4.
Conversation
Having
established mutual attraction, the interaction becomes more substantial and a
sense of connection and rapport is formed. This phase is the opening for the
male and female to discover the breadth and depth of topics and experiences
which they have in common.
5. Connection
Both
parties feel a vibe that it is “on”. The conversation may decrease in fervour,
leading to the development of sexual tension. Kissing usually occurs during
this phase.
6. Intimacy
The
location for the interaction should now have moved to a more private place,
such as the home. More intimate physical contact may comfortably ensue at this
phase.
7. Foreplay
The couple
begin the physical escalation towards sex.
Early commencement of this phase – such as in the meeting place venue -
may abort the pick-up before the end.
8.
Last-minute resistance
This is the
point of no return for the female, where she may toss out a number of emotional
objections camouflaged as logical propositions. The man needs to reassure the
female at this point of his commitment to her and the interaction.
9. Sexual
intercourse
The couple
have sex. It may be necessary to do this several times in order to commence a
relationship.
Observing a
male-female interaction at this level of granularity helps preserve the
smoothness of the pick-up artist’s escalation, a vital element for the
successful communication of respect for a woman’s needs in the process from
meeting to sex.
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