7 Body Language Secrets That Attract Women
By: Clark Cassidy 
What is the biggest “key” factor there is when it comes to
approaching and attracting beautiful women? Is it looks? Nope. Is it
income? No. Is it age? Not even close. The biggest factor there is
without a doubt is communication.
It gets a lot
crazier then that, however. Communication of course is how we talk to
other people, right? But what would you say if I told you that 90% of
our day-to-day communication is done in a way where you don’t have to
speak at all? That’s right. The majority of what we communicate
doesn’t even come from our mouths!
This 90% of communication
is called body language. Even when we aren’t talking, we are always
sending off these ‘signals’ that other people, women especially, pick
up subconsciously. For example, as I am writing this in a coffee shop
the waitress can tell I am head-first in my laptop working on
something, because of that she knows to keep me refilled and to not
disturb me much.
If you see someone walking with their hands
in their pockets and their head down, will you be more likely to
approach this person? Or would you be more likely to approach a person
with their head up and shoulders thrown back? This is my point exactly.
The
greatest thing about modifying your body language is that the results
are almost instant. From the moment you start using them you start
feeling better about yourself and people will be more likely to
approach you.
The other great thing about body language is
the changes are small and subtle, but they can be tricky to use all the
time but through effort and practice you WILL become a natural.
Let’s talk about the 7 body language secrets that I personally use to help me attract women:
- Movement
– Nervous guys are always fidgety and jerky. Confident men who are
successful with women make very controlled movements. They walk slowly
and only make controlled movements. You will never see a confident man
with restless leg syndrome or fidgeting with their fingers. By slowing
down your movement you are presenting to the rest of the world a more
“comfortable” version of yourself and it makes you that much more
approach-friendly.
- Lean Back and Relax – When you are
sitting up or in any sort of position that isn’t standing up, lay back
and relax. Let your arms hang down at your sides, and make yourself as
comfortable as you possibly can. Shy guys have a tendency of
“shielding” themselves from other people by sitting forward with their
arms folded. Don’t do this as it makes you look closed off. Relax!
- Be
Spacious – In any situation, always take up as much space as possible.
If you’re sitting in a lobby, sort of lean back and kick your legs
out. This is a “territorial” thing that all people notice
subconsciously. If people see you taking up this space they will
automatically assume you to be the alpha in the room and that you are
the one who is the most laid back and fun!
- Walking
Posture - When you are walking it’s very important to have great
posture. If you walk with your head down with your hands in your
pocket you will look completely unapproachable. Walk with your back
straight, with your head tilted up just a bit. Stick your chest out
and bring your shoulders back. This shows women what they are most
attracted too, confidence. Take a look at any millionaire, rockstar,
or celebrity. They always walk this way and it’s because they are
confident with themselves.
- Open Yourself – When you are
approaching women stand or sit with your palms slightly exposed with
your arms at your sides and with your legs shoulder width apart (or out
in front of you if you are sitting). Don’t ever cross your arms or
your legs as this is a signal for being “closed” off.
- Be
Calm and Indifferent – You never want to show to much emotion at any
given time, this makes you seem as if you aren’t in control of your
life or your situation.
- Tonality – While this is
technically “speaking” it’s more body language then anything else. If
you talk fast, slow down! People who talk fast are usually left in the
dust because they either A) Talk to fast for people to comprehend or B)
Are embarrassing to talk too. Talking slower allows you to be more in
control of what you say, it also stops you from making embarrassing
mistakes such as stuttering which is a MASSIVE sign of being nervous!
If
you can master each one of those body language principles then you will
be in a completely different league with women then anyone you know!
Another quick-tip to help you master these tips is to associate a color
with body language. For example, every time you see something red,
check over your body language and see if you are displaying confident
and open body language.
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Wishing you all the success with women,
Clark Cassidy
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