Using your Voice and
Body Language to Pick Up Chicks
By: Gambler
Most men
think that picking up a girl is a matter of using witty lines and routines, but
much more significant than the words you actually use are the way you present
your body to the girl. Words can lie, but the body doesn’t, and the two crucial
aspects of a body’s presentation are its stance and the quality of the voice,
which can be viewed as an interpretation of the body’s inner state. Good voice
and good body language express great confidence.
1. Have a
deep, powerful voice that comes from the diaphragm.
First of
all, learn to breathe from the abdomen – this is the essential basis for a
powerful voice which will allow you to convey the emotional range of expression
that captivates beautiful women.
2. Speak
slowly and clearly.
Without overdoing
it, pronounce every word – make them all count! Eliminate redundant words such
as “uh”, “like”, and “you know”.
3. Speak
rhythmically.
Use pauses
to create a hypnotic lilt to your delivery.
4. Speak
loudly.
This is vital,
especially in loud venues, and in the early stages of an interaction. When
you’re sitting close and comfortable with a girl later on, you can (and
should!) drop the volume, but a loud delivery on the initial approach is necessary
to arrest a girl’s attention.
5. Open
sets over your shoulder.
You need to
convey sufficient disinterest when approaching a girl (the approach itself is
sufficient indication of interest) to divest her of the fear that she’s going
to have trouble getting rid of you. This will allow her to take a chance on
investing in the interaction. When initially start talking to a girl, your head
should be facing towards her but your body should be facing away. There are two
ordinary scenarios – in the first, you are with your friends and casually open
a girl in an adjacent group; in the second, you are walking in the venue and
open her “on your way back” to your friends.
6. Lean
back
Get her to
come towards you, gesture her with your hand or finger if necessary. Many
novices lean into a girl when they first speak to her, which telegraphs
excessive interest at too early a stage of the interaction. Also, try to stay
as still as possible by minimizing unnecessary or nervous fidgeting; every
movement of your body should be expressive and to the point.
When you
have mastered some or all of these elements, the whole process of a pick-up
will become infinitely more straightforward since you will be conveying so much
value non-verbally. Try to work on all of these, and have friends observe and
point out what you’re doing wrong.
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