talking to high school girls when school is out

[t-pain]

Hey everyone, i'm new to this whole thing and I'v just started getting into it. I need some help because i would like to ask a girl out who goes to my high school but school is out and so the only other way to do it would be to call her because she does not have facebook or aim to get her number and do something.I have a pretty good standing with her. Do you suggest that i call her and ask if she wants to go to a small cafe in the mall to catch up in which i will try to lead it to more? or wait for school to start and just go ask other girls out? and if i do ask her out should it be to a cafe like a book store or in the mall or ask her if she wants to see a movie which is kinda common so i think it would probably be better if i said bowling if i did go that route.
Could you people help guide me in the right direction

[Chris P. Bacon]

What grade are you and her in? That may seem like a silly question but in high school but it really does matter because of the maturity levels.

Different maturity levels require different tactics.

[t-pain]

same grade

[dennisch]

my friend has a similar case,

any goodtips for us?

-Dennisch-

[Chris P. Bacon]

What grade are you two in then?

A freshman will act dramatically different from a senior so it is importan for me too know.

[Ph.d]

Depending on how well you know her, some cliche date idea like bowling or movies may create unwanted tension. Though I definitely suggest setting something up before school starts again. Building that rapport outside of school grounds will give you a huge edge over just talking to her in school once it starts.

Just be chill about it. Here is an example from me:

There was a girl that I met through a friend and saw a lot when we would all hang out, but we never hung out on our own (I didn't pursue for various reasons). So I remembered her recently and sent her this text:

"Hey val, I haven't seen you all summer, what the fuck have you been up to?"

She sent back that she had been working a lot so I said:

"When is your next day off? Let's go to the Rita's that just opened by the mall and catch up"

Sunday afternoon baby, without even dialing her number. It really does depend on your age though I think, so what grade are you going into exactly?

[t-pain]

Originally Posted by Ph.d

Depending on how well you know her, some cliche date idea like bowling or movies may create unwanted tension. Though I definitely suggest setting something up before school starts again. Building that rapport outside of school grounds will give you a huge edge over just talking to her in school once it starts.

Just be chill about it. Here is an example from me:

There was a girl that I met through a friend and saw a lot when we would all hang out, but we never hung out on our own (I didn't pursue for various reasons). So I remembered her recently and sent her this text:

"Hey val, I haven't seen you all summer, what the fuck have you been up to?"

She sent back that she had been working a lot so I said:

"When is your next day off? Let's go to the Rita's that just opened by the mall and catch up"

Sunday afternoon baby, without even dialing her number. It really does depend on your age though I think, so what grade are you going into exactly?

we are both going into 11th grade. do you suggest that i call and say this
"Hey erica how's it going.
What have you been up to
I haven't seen you all summer let's go to (insert restaurant name) in the center and catch up "
She has not given me her phone number so it might be awk because i would have to call her house but i don't see why not because it is summer and if she says no I will have like 3 weeks to forget it and in that time ask other people out

[dennisch]

Originally Posted by t-pain

we are both going into 11th grade. do you suggest that i call and say this
"Hey erica how's it going.
What have you been up to
I haven't seen you all summer let's go to (insert restaurant name) in the center and catch up "
She has not given me her phone number so it might be awk because i would have to call her house but i don't see why not because it is summer and if she says no I will have like 3 weeks to forget it and in that time ask other people out

yes, seem to do the same way.

maybe more lessons from the masters here, just like a virtual or e-class as a traning to us.


-Dennisch-