To cheat or not to cheat?

[Ph.d]

I won't put up my opinion, just an anonymous poll to see what you guys think about it.

[Ace]

Si, no regrets

[cllam]

Yes, I do have a little bit regret about it.
And the matter wai long time ago.
Let's be ...

[MrBen23]

Any stories? Anyways, I think I have a problem with fidelity. I'm always chasing new tang and in a way, I feel horrible when I get into a LTR. I believe though that humans are socially monogamous but sexually not. I don't know if that made sense, but I think there is something in your systems that makes us want to plant our seed into every woman that passes by. At least, that's the case for me. LOL

[Clark Cassidy]

Originally Posted by MrBen23

Any stories? Anyways, I think I have a problem with fidelity. I'm always chasing new tang and in a way, I feel horrible when I get into a LTR. I believe though that humans are socially monogamous but sexually not. I don't know if that made sense, but I think there is something in your systems that makes us want to plant our seed into every woman that passes by. At least, that's the case for me. LOL

Genetically we are both socially and sexual polygamists. Survival of the fittest. The concept of one person for the rest of your life is a concept invented by us.

That's not to say that 100% monogamous long term relationships aren't worth it in some cases, though. I intend to settle up one day but until that day comes I'm just having fun with life.

[Hayato]

I have never cheated on a girl personally, but i came very close many times. I wish it was the norm to be able to have like 3-5 chicks like Hugh Heffner haha. Life would be awesome if that were the case.

I have a feeling i might cheat somewhere in the future, just because my game is on point now and that woman seem to just throw themselves on me, no joke.

[leeds]

Originally Posted by Hayato

I have never cheated on a girl personally, but i came very close many times. I wish it was the norm to be able to have like 3-5 chicks like Hugh Heffner haha. Life would be awesome if that were the case.

I have a feeling i might cheat somewhere in the future, just because my game is on point now and that woman seem to just throw themselves on me, no joke.

Agreed,
a little bit of cheating is unavoidable;
this is the real situation.

[MrBen23]

What I meant is that a majority of societies believe in monogamous relationships. Boyfriend and girlfriend, not boyfriend and girlfriends, husband and wife, not husband and wives. Certain birds have a social structure very similar to ours. They claim their significant other, but if an attractive bird flirts with them, or their partner doesn't provide significant food or protection, they are more likely to cheat on their partner. Interesting stuff.

Anyway, I don't think I have ever remained faithful to any of my girlfriends. Shame on me.

[Hayato]

I am not sure if this is true but i heard from a friend of mines that Will Smith and Jada Picket have an open marriage. And if this is true, it seems to be working because they are still going on strong.

[MrBen23]

Originally Posted by Hayato

I am not sure if this is true but i heard from a friend of mines that Will Smith and Jada Picket have an open marriage. And if this is true, it seems to be working because they are still going on strong.

This wouldn't work for every relationship though. It requires a level of relaxed rules, because I know not every man and/or woman is willing to share their partner.