My way of removing a fear of rejection

[pimpdawg]

Go up to a girl and ask for a blowjob. Look as serious as you can, and when she says no, ask her to explain why. Make it look like you are clueless with women, and need a serious conclusion as to why it is 'rude' to go and ask for head so bluntly. Try to stretch the conversation on for as long as you can without getting slapped in the face , or being doused with a large canister of pepper spray.

Once you do this a few times, you can start asking them to give you pointers on chatting girls up. you won't get the girls number (for obvious reasons) but it will take away the fear of making a fool of yourself in front of a woman, whilst improving your ability to approach. this works great because from the opener, you instantly know that you have ruined your chances with this girl - and therefore there is no longer pressure to impress or charm her. you will act more naturally as long as you can learn to control yourself from laughing, and can learn to make a good conversation with women who you have never spoken to.

[Chris P. Bacon]

Pretty ballsy.

[leeds]

thanks for compelling and amazing tips,
best to share with us!

[DJ_Matthew]

Originally Posted by pimpdawg

Go up to a girl and ask for a blowjob. Look as serious as you can, and when she says no, ask her to explain why. Make it look like you are clueless with women, and need a serious conclusion as to why it is 'rude' to go and ask for head so bluntly. Try to stretch the conversation on for as long as you can without getting slapped in the face , or being doused with a large canister of pepper spray.

Once you do this a few times, you can start asking them to give you pointers on chatting girls up. you won't get the girls number (for obvious reasons) but it will take away the fear of making a fool of yourself in front of a woman, whilst improving your ability to approach. this works great because from the opener, you instantly know that you have ruined your chances with this girl - and therefore there is no longer pressure to impress or charm her. you will act more naturally as long as you can learn to control yourself from laughing, and can learn to make a good conversation with women who you have never spoken to.

I'm trying this for sure. Priceless.

[dennisch]

Brave needed.
Just like the Korea tv love story programme

"101 times for asking marriage",

that is 100 times of failure but successful at next time!

, something like army of die hard theme LOL

[casan0va]

Nice tip, thanks

Here is what I've learned over the years

You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with woman, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

After that you can use what psychologists call ‘the constraint of choice’ to make sure that her only option is you. When a person is given only one option, they are more likely to take it. So for example, if you ask for her phone number, she has the choice of either give it to you, or not. That’s two options and one of them is not your desired outcome.

Instead, give her the choice of either to give you her phone number or to arrange a date now. Now she feels she has a choice, but she really only has one choice - you. She is much more likely to give you her number this way.

[dennisch]

Originally Posted by casan0va

Nice tip, thanks

Here is what I've learned over the years

You can work your magic to do what you need to get a date with woman, a phone number and an emotional connection, once she begins talking to you.

How do you engage a woman in conversation?

Asking her opinion of something is the easiest way to do this, since each woman has an opinion and they like sharing their ideas, especially about relationships.

Good pick up lines work like this, for example. Say something to the woman, like this, Hi, I need you opinion on something, do you think it is normal for a woman to try to time a pregnancy so that her baby is born within a particular zodiac sign? I would really like to hear the opinion of a woman about this subject.

Once you engage her in the conversation you may follow up with a tale of some woman who wants to be sure she and her children are astrologically compatible, to make life a bit more enjoyable as life moves along.

After that you can use what psychologists call ‘the constraint of choice’ to make sure that her only option is you. When a person is given only one option, they are more likely to take it. So for example, if you ask for her phone number, she has the choice of either give it to you, or not. That’s two options and one of them is not your desired outcome.

Instead, give her the choice of either to give you her phone number or to arrange a date now. Now she feels she has a choice, but she really only has one choice - you. She is much more likely to give you her number this way.

Thank for sharing the tips.

Maybe practice for the first conversation ...
It is the hardest part!

-Dennisch-

[P.T.]

Yeah, approaching a women is definitely the hardest part. One thing that Dave pointed out and has worked real well (for me anyway) is not smiling. I get 9 out of 10 phone numbers from girls who don't say "I have a b/f." I don't smile at all, even act a little annoyed, it works like a charm. One thing I'm having trouble with though, (and I suppose this can only be answered with experience) is reading the signs that a girl is starting to become a little too intimidated. Which is fine I guess, but I would assume her body language starts to mean different things when this happens. ???

[Clark Cassidy]

Originally Posted by P.T.

Yeah, approaching a women is definitely the hardest part. One thing that Dave pointed out and has worked real well (for me anyway) is not smiling. I get 9 out of 10 phone numbers from girls who don't say "I have a b/f." I don't smile at all, even act a little annoyed, it works like a charm. One thing I'm having trouble with though, (and I suppose this can only be answered with experience) is reading the signs that a girl is starting to become a little too intimidated. Which is fine I guess, but I would assume her body language starts to mean different things when this happens. ???

Usually when people let themselves be intimidated it's because they aren't confident in themselves, so usually they show the exact same body language as a shy person (quiet, kind of closed off, nervous, etc.)