5 Ways to Make a
Connection with a Woman
By: Gambler
Making a deep
connection quickly with a woman is a skill that most guys lack. They speak in rational ways, do not listen,
and relate everything the woman says to them, instead of trying to understand
things from her point of view. This
makes it tricky to establish a connection, evoke feelings in her, and make her
feel like she has had a great conversation.
Here is what you need to do:
- Relate things to them not to
you or your life.
When some body
says they have had an experience, like going to Thailand, it is common to instantaneously
relate it to yourself and talk about the time you went to Thailand, or say that
you have never gone. Instead, try to
imagine what it was like for them, bring out the memories, and show curiosity
in their amazing holiday; don’t sweep it under the table by immediately talking
about yourself. Connect for a bit, and
then it is fine to relate it to yourself.
- Use what they give you.
When
someone is talking they give you pieces of information about them, their
feelings and their lives. You can disregard
this and talk about yourself or ask another question, but you will be missing
an opportunity to connect. Connect on
each point before moving on to the next.
- Be Observant
Notice
things about their appearance (clothes, accessories, hair, nails, jewellery,
etc). Women typically put a lot of
effort and time into the way they look; their bag might match their shoes,
belt, earrings, and dress. Most people
don’t notice, they’ll be happy if you do.
Jewellery and accessories also often have a story associated with them
or mean something to the girl.
- Be empathetic
If someone
has an interest, a passion, a hobby, or a strong point of view you have 3
options. The first is to say “me too”,
the second is to disagree, and the 3rd and best option is to show
that you understand why she has this passion, interest or view regardless of
whether you share it. If someone likes
cooking, you don’t have to also like cooking to show that you understand why
she would like it. In the form of a
question, tell her why cooking might be something she enjoys so much.
- Talk about things that evoke
passions and feeling.
What is
something they are very passionate about; it might be anything from friends and
family, to travel, to ballet, to theatre.
Connect on these points by showing you understand why they feel that
way. Do not gloss over them, say “me
too”, or immediately change subject, talk about yourself or ask another
question.
Do these
things and you will make a real connection quickly. Instead of it taking weeks, you can do it in
hours or days.
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