How to Get a Woman to Treat You the Way You Deserve
By: John Alexander
You know the scenario. You begin dating a woman.
After the first date, all you get is a peck on the cheek.
Second date, you get a lips kiss. Third date, you hold hands. It's a very sluggish
process.
You can't comprehend why it has to take so long to have sex with the woman.
After all, you're buying her meals. You even splurged on some beautiful
flowers.
In short... you're being extremely nice to the woman. So what's the trouble?
Why won't she have sex with you?
It comes down to human enthusiasm. People behave in ways that cause them to get
rewarded. They stay away from behaviors that cause them punishment.
So the reason why guys often have problems getting laid is because they reward
bad behavior. A chick will lead them on and then make it obvious there won't be
sex that night, yet the guy rewards her by cuddling with her.
A better answer would be to punish the bad behavior by being a lot less
interested in cuddling with her. Never undervalue the power of getting up from
the couch and walking out the door.
Remember, to produce the full enjoyment out of life and to have women be
attracted to you, you need to be an alpha male. That means being powerful. So
make sure you get treated the way you deserve to be.
Did a chick do something (like have sex with you) that deserves rewarding? Then
go ahead and do something nice for her. Take her on a date to a fancy
restaurant. Buy her filet mignon and Don Perignon (if you've got the money).
Does a chick just string you along, telling you nice things that she would do
for you if only she didn't have a boyfriend? Then take out your attention, and
go talk to other girls instead of her.
Frame all of your actions towards women in terms of punishment and reward, and
you'll be treated the way you ought to (or else you'll move onto another woman
who WILL treat you right).
John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male ... a seduction success
guide for men. Learn more advanced tips on how to develop the mind set of an
alpha male to find the success with women that you desire.
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