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How To Get Rid Of Shyness | Overcome Shyness - Step By Step

 

 Question from a painfully shy guy:

Hi Joe,

Your article are wonderful. Hats off to you man.

The major problem I face is lonesomeness. I like this girl who lives in my apartment building, but I can't talk to her because I'm too timid.

It's like this with everyone. I don't even have any friends because I'm too shy to meet people. And when I talk to girls, I don't get the responses I desire because I get too anxious and don't know what to say.

The other day, I ran into the girl from my apartment building. By luck she was waiting for the elevator when I came in and there was no one else around to make me nervous.

She is so gorgeous. Seeing my chance, I used one of your tips and started to look at her eyes and try to make eye contact, but she looked to the side so I couldn't even see her face.

When she did this, I got worried and took the stairs instead of waiting for the elevator with her.

When I read your emails, I get a lot of nerve. It took a great deal of enterprising on my part to even look at the eyes of this girl.

Because I'm too shy to have friends who can help give me advice on this, and because my attempt at meeting this girl went poorly, I'm terribly unhappy.

I'm writing to you with a serious wound in my heart. Help me! What can I do?

Waiting for your advice...

With regards,

Jay


My Response:

First off, I just want to point out that you are putting WAY too much value on women.

Way, WAY too much.

It sounds like you are rejecting yourself in your psyche before they have a possibility to get to know you.

See, for guys who don't know a lot about women, they seem to be something more than just another person.

They are the source of sexual bliss.

They are the source of justification.

They are unique.

If you have ever had the idea "If only I could get a girl to like me, everything would be different!" ...

Then you have some very out of reach views about the opposite sex.

Here's the funny thing...

You weren't BORN shy.

Shyness is not an innate trait.

It's something that is LEARNED.

It's a talent that is DEVELOPED over time.

In short: Shyness is UNNATURAL!

Human beings, by nature, are social creatures. We're raised by parents, have siblings, etc., so it's natural to want contact with other human beings.

Any feelings that make you act different to this desire are opposite to evolution.

They are DANGEROUS!

They are trying to deny you of a basic human need -- contact with others.

When you fall back on the crutch of being "shy," what you're really doing is training yourself to do something that's intrinsically HARMFUL to you!

Being afraid of others is the comparable to having an irrational fear of food. Food is something you NEED to live! And if you're afraid of it, you're going to suffer.

In this case, if you were dying of hunger because you're afraid of food, would you rather die of hunger, or would you prefer to FORCE yourself to eat, in the face of the fear, in order to survive?

This is the same dilemma you must face when confronting shyness.

Would you rather suffer emotionally from loneliness and fear?

Or would you rather compel yourself through the fear and enjoy human company?

I'm hoping you decide to FIGHT the fear.

And I'll help you do it.

Do you want to know the single best way to conquer shyness?

You can do it by simply MEETING PEOPLE.

Keep reading, because I'm going to tell you, step-by-step, what you have to do.

Go out EVERY DAY to meet 10 women. It doesn't matter what they look like, how old they are, whatever, as long as they are WOMEN.

Walk up to them and say:

"Excuse me, can I ask you a question? It will only take a second

If they say "No thanks," just shrug it off and say "Well, thanks for your time."

If they say "Yes," respond:

"I need some female guidance on something. My little cousin's (or niece, or whatever) birthday is coming up, and I need to get her a gift, but I don't know what little girls would like. Can you give me a suggestion?"

Then when they give you the answer, say:

"Thank you very much. My name is (your name). What's yours?"

When they give you their name, end it with:

"It was a pleasure meeting you (her name). Thanks for the suggestion."

And then WALK AWAY.

That's right. You don't have to hang around and chit-chat. You can just walk away.

Simple, right?

You might be frightened to do this at first, but just keep in mind that you're only asking them a QUESTION.

Nothing more.

You're not trying to get a phone number or a date. You're just trying to break through your barricade about meeting others.

In short: You're re-training yourself to fight through your shyness!

Do this to 10 women every day. You're not asking them out or anything, you're just asking a question and introducing yourself.

If you keep doing this, you're going to observe a few things:

  1. Meeting people isn't terrifying. In fact, it can be pretty fun!

 

  1. Most people will want to be engaged in conversation, and may even ask you questions or try to employ you in a conversation in return.

 

  1. The people who don't want to talk to you aren't worth your time. It's the ones who DO want to talk to you who are worth while.


Now, this is only part of the resolution to finally overcoming your shyness for good.

For a absolute run-down of how to build your confidence and conquer your shyness forever, you simply must, must, MUST check out my ground-breaking ebook The Art Of Approaching.

In it, I break down the act of confidence construction in such a way, even a three year old infant could follow it.

And what's even more is -- IT WORKS!

Don't believe me? Download the book right now and see for yourself:

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There is *no* risk on your part. Either you improve, or you get a refund.

I guarantee it!

Wishing you success,

Joseph Matthews

 
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