How to Pick Up Girls on the Dance Floor in Noisy Clubs
By: Gambler
Okay, so you can meet girls in the coffee shop,
in a loud bar, and maybe even at the grocery store. But how do you approach a girl who can’t hear
you and is dancing with her friends?
You want to distinguish yourself from the current
guys on the dance floor. Do this by not
making the same bad decisions that they are making. These guys are doing a couple of things that
you should never do. They will be doing
one of the following:
- Standing
around the girls and just watching them out while not dancing.
- Making
a sad effort to dance whilst not being into the music, but just trying to
get close to the girls.
- Grinding
on a girls ass.
The result of this kind of approach is that it
is a absolute numbers game. Generally you’ll
only get a particular type of girl responding to approaches like this.
So now you know what not to do, how do you really
pick-up girls who are getting down on the dance floor?
Here are a couple of things you can do to
pick-up on the dance-floor:
- First,
have fun dancing around. Don’t try
to get close to the woman. Enjoy
yourself, enjoy the music. When you
are a man having fun on the dance-floor, you will instantly stand out from
all the other men. The women will walk
away from all the other strange guys and gather around you.
You can then:
- Mirror
the girls dancing in an embellished funny way, get eye contact and force an
optimistic reaction from her and then move in and dance with her.
- Have
a “dance-off” with the girl where you signal to get her to watch your
moves, bust a silly little move, then point at her eagerly. If she reacts optimistically, move in
and dance with her.
- On
the edge of the dance-floor with girls that are not quiet dancing, you can
say “do you like to dance?” If they
say yes, say “do you salsa?” and as you say it take them and start salsa’ing
with them. You need about 4 salsa classes
to be able to do the basic steps, which are all you need. You can rapidly escalate
the physical element of the seduction from the salsa opener.
The objective on the dance floor is to dance
with them, escalate physically a little bit, and then escort them to a quieter,
calmer location where she is secluded and you can talk to her. Sit down or go to the bar with her.
When you have mastered dance-floor game, you
will be able to pick-up women non-verbally in a highly sexual setting. It’s a rare skill and you’ll rapidly see
results.
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