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How To Pick Up Women In Nightclubs And Streets

By: Thundercat

 Question From A Reader:

Dear Joseph,

I am a student and I wanted to know how to pick up women in the most crucial areas with plenty of chicks. Here are the situations first: - The Nightclub where the music is so loud, where there are too many people with little or no room to move, and the girls are dancing with themselves. The main idea is that it is very hard and almost pointless to begin a conversation in these areas. How do I do it?

Second: - How do I pick up women who are walking along the street maybe going somewhere. Like I am in school, how do I meet a girl who is walking down maybe to her dorm or somewhere else? The point is where Im from people do this to women all the time. But here in America, its almost considered odd because you pop out of nowhere and shes not expecting it.

Finally, what do you do when a girl tells you she has a boyfriend? Should you leave her alone or continue your business on getting her. What if she is completely in love with her boyfriend, how do you win her over?


My Response

Okay, I guess I'll try tackling each question in order...

First, Nightclubs ARE very tricky venues. Unless you're specially suited to the party-style nightlife, these venues will be a bit intimidating. And even if you are predisposed to this type of pick up, you will still have to deal with lots of opposition from other men.

That said, it's not impossible to meet women in nightclubs. But it will involve you to be a little more outgoing and aggressive than other venues.

First off, when I'm in a club, I tend to like to hang out in open-air areas where I can talk to other people easier. Patios and right outside the club can be good for this. Most clubs will have some form of outside area where you can hang out -- especially places like New York and Los Angeles where you're not permitted to smoke inside.

The dance floor can also be quite successful. If you like to dance, go out there and try dancing with the women who are dancing by themselves. If they're not into it, move on. If they are, it's PLAY time! =)

Also, keep in mind the time at which you're going to the club. Usually, the later it gets, the easier it is to pick up a girl (this is because as it gets later, people are more inclined to "hook up" due to alcohol, desperation, boredom, etc.).

Second, to approach women on the street takes a bit of skill. In America, people do tend to be a bit more personal than in other parts of the world. My best advice in this respect is to actually follow the girl for a bit and see where she's going. If she stops off at a coffee shop or a bus stop, or whatever, THAT is the time to approach her! If it looks like she's going somewhere you can't follow her into (like her home/dorm, for instance) then you'll have to take the chance and try approaching her cold. But make it a fast approach and include a time constraint ("I know you're on your way somewhere, this'll only take a second..."), get her number as quick as you can, then move on.

Finally, when it comes to the "boyfriend" thing, that's a matter of individual taste. Some guys don't want to mess with that, others don't care. The thing is, most women aren't THAT dedicated to their boyfriends, so it's not as big of an obstacle as you might think.

The important thing to do in this situation is to try and "read" the woman. Sometimes, a girl will tell you she has a boyfriend when she really doesn't because she wants to politely reject you (and sometimes she really does have a boyfriend and wants to stay faithful to him). If this is the case, you have to look at the signals she's giving you to see if she's actually into you or not.

If a woman does like you and IS in fact into you, she will usually with-hold the fact that she has a boyfriend. And if she does bring it up, she wants you to take the lead and "sweep her off her feet" so she won't have to feel guilty about cheating on him. So when that's the case, it's time to pump up the aggressiveness on you're pick up.

If you want to learn how to read a woman, check out my book The Art of Approaching, I devote an entire section of my book to this. I go into great detail on how to spot the subtle signs a woman gives off to let you know she's interested in you, and how to use this to your advantage!

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Wishing you success!

Joseph Matthews

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