Three Laws of Attraction Every Guy Has to Know
By: James
"Attraction is not a choice."
-David DeAngelo
Interesting quote, but what does this signify to us guys? In short, women are accustomed
to respond to certain signals, traits, and physical characteristics. It is not
that they CHOOSE to be attracted to bad boys, or athletes, or wealthy
businessmen. Rather, evolution has conditioned them to be attracted to these
types of men, because they carry out the right actions and behaviors that send
off attraction signals in women's brains. Talk about having chemistry!
The excellent news is You don't HAVE to be wealthy, athletic, or a bad boy to effectively
attract women. You just have to ACT like them. You just have to identify what
behaviors, attitudes, and actions they have that WORK in impressing and
seducing women.
There are 10 laws of attraction every man must know, but as I only have a narrow
space, I'm only going to detail the first three here. For the remaining seven,
check out my "How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series"
course.
Now, onto the 3 laws of attraction!
Rule #1: Demonstrate High Social Status
There are lots of great ways to do this, including peacocking, which is a accepted
term for dressing up in outrageous outfits and hair styles; being energetic;
and using your popularity--the standard of social proof. When women see you
socializing with bartenders, managers, and club/bar owners, this proves that
you are popular--and wanted.
So get to know everybody at the places you go to: the party hosts, the
bartenders, the owners, the managers, everyone. When women notice you're in a
position of importance and popularity, they WILL become attracted to you--even
if they don't realize it!
Rule #2: Make Impressions
A great way to attract a woman is to make unforgettable impressions. It doesn't
matter how good you look, how tall you are, how rich you are--all you have to
do is leave a first-class memory of who you are. Make a woman remember you. You
can do this in a number of ways, including:
* Ask how she's doing with confidence
A simple, "Hey, what's up?" in a comfortable tone goes a long way
towards making a girl remember you. This is particularly effective with retail
clerks and waitresses. Don't act too fascinated in what she has to say--just
say it in a slow, cool, DEEP tone of voice that sends their emotional chemicals
buzzing! Say this with a hassle-free, open body and good posture. The truth is,
when you comprehend what body language and tonality cues work, you will attract
women with ease.
* TEASE her
Show your confidence in yourself by teasing about a girl's hair or occupation.
You can say, "Wow, you put a lot of effort into that hairstyle, huh?"
or if she says she's a model or dancer, say, "Huh, just a model, eh? Well,
that's nice." Acting unenthusiastic, ironically, will make her impressed.
Girls are used to having guys fawn over them, so to do the opposite of what she
expects will go a long way, to your benefit. This proves you don't need any
woman's justification, to feel attractive. Hate to say it, but women want a man
who doesn't need them to feel good about himself. Don't believe anything else.
* Joke About Other Guy's Failure
This is a grand technique where you can use other guys' pickup failures to your
advantage. If a guy says something really tacky or dull, just say to her,
"Man, you must get that all the time." Or just go up to her and say,
"See that guy over there? He's got the WORST BO in the world!"
Find out more methods, including how to make her laugh and tell great
stories, by ordering my Mastery Course now. You can start with the free How to
Be Irresistible to Women six-part audio course and move from there.
Rule #3: Be Funny in an Attractive, Cocky Way
As you can tell from the methods above, comedy is great way of attracting
women. Women just seem to adore laughing, and when you think about it, you
can't blame them: Who wants to be with a dull guy? Particularly if they're
thinking of settling down with a guy in a relationship, they want a guy who can
keep things exciting, humorous, and not too serious. Humor does just that. Some
great ways to make a girl laugh include:
Self-Deprecation
This is where karaoke is great--you can poke fun at yourself and be a joker. It
shows you're at ease with yourself, fun, and not too stern.
Wit
As long as you don't use it against her too much, wit can be an immense thing.
It shows cleverness and humor.
Observational Humor
Observing humorous things like a clumsy waiter or a guy whose face looks like
his dogs is a great way of making a girl giggle.
Exaggeration
Telling a great story and showcasing how ridiculous something was, is a
surefire way to leave an impression. Having a lot of anecdotes ready to tell a
girl is a great way of making an impression, and attracting her.
Cocky comedy
This astounding technique, pioneered by David DeAngelo, is an unbelievable
way of both demonstrating high social status, and of making her laugh. Normally,
you want to break her balls and BREAK HER STATE. Take her out of her element,
tease her in front of her group. Show that you don't need her, and specially
that you don't need her for self-validation. Very controlling stuff, and
something I discuss in detail in my audio lesson on Building Higher Status.
There are all kinds of supplementary ways to attract women, and truthfully, not
enough can be written on the subject. But this ought to give you a start to
your understanding of what women want. To discover out more, check out my
dynamic "How to Be Irresistible to Women: The Mastery Series" course
on how to attract the women YOU want.
It's YOUR turn to begin an exciting, successful fresh lifestyle!
James
Host of "How to Be Irresistible to Women Mastery Series "
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About the author:
James is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM" and
host of the "How to Be Irresistible to Women MASTERY SERIES."
His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the
art of meeting and seducing females the world over and introduces a worldly approach
to dating and developing real relationships necessary for the modern man.
The "How to Be Irresistible to Women PREMIUM" and "MASTERY
SERIES" packages offer guys like you a dynamic and comprehensive toolkit
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Because it's YOUR turn!
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