Where to get a perfect 10
By: Derek Vitalio
Today I’m going to address the issue of finding those
elusive “Perfect 10s”.
Maybe you want a girl with particular physical traits, like a color of hair,
a round butt, a classy dresser, or a pretty smile.
But most super attractive girls are not that great. Many of them are not
very fun people. And then there’s the drama and head issues. And many, because
of their beauty, never had to learn to be good in bed.
Even when you snag your perfect dream girl as a girlfriend, it’s in men’s
nature to get bored and want the next thing. You finally got that girl with
those big boobs? After a few months you’ll be dreaming about a tall, thin,
blonde.
Another way to reframe your goals with women is this- maybe it isn’t the
physical characteristics of the woman you should be looking for, but rather the
ability to build ANY girl you meet into your dream girl.
After all, even a “seven”, with the right peacocking, exercise, and attitude
training can become hotter and sexier than a ready-made “10”.
Now I’m about to let you in on a little secret… exactly how to transform any
woman into a “Perfect 10”.
Truly beautiful women- the kind of women that men swoon over- embody a
particular archetype which is the Courtesan. Courtesans all share some common
characteristics.
The Courtesan is Enthusiastically Sexual. The Courtesan understands that men
want a sexually enthusiastic woman, not a girl that is a bore in bed and just
goes through the motions out of duty. The Courtesan embraces that she’s a
sexual woman and has no hang-ups about it. When she’s alone she regularly
fantasizes and is not shy about masturbating herself to orgasm. Whenever she
sees her lover she’s overcome with fresh enthusiasm and with barely restrained
eagerness.
The Courtesan is Uninhibited. The Courtesan delights in being a “bad girl”
for her man, and is always willing to go farther. Once she gets an idea, she
runs with it. She’s passionate, hot, fun, and raw in the bedroom.
The Courtesan is Visual. The Courtesan understands that men want to look and
sex is as exciting as what he sees. She makes herself as feminine as possible,
dressing so that the most interesting portions of her anatomy are emphasized.
She wears sexy costumes and eats right and takes care of her body. She uses
visual techniques and nonverbal cues during sex to maximize her man’s
excitement.
The Courtesan is a Dancer. She moves sexy, abandoning herself in dance. It
is the way she dances that makes her man’s heart pound, her whole body alive,
writhing like an animal in heat. Her dancing may be hardly professional, but
she enjoys herself so much and is so unrestrained that none of that matters.
The Courtesan embodies Variety. She is not repetitive. She is versed in a
myriad of fantasies and techniques. She makes it a delightful game to play new
fantasy roles, to surprise her man, and to be an endless source of
entertainment to him. A man grows bored with a woman, no matter how beautiful.
He yearns for different pleasures, and for adventure. The Courtesan offers such
variety and adventure.
The Courtesan is Devoted to Pleasure. She is the incarnation of all that is
exciting and titillating. She knows what pleases and she is devoted to the art
of pleasure for both herself and to her lover.
It’s said that a picture is worth a thousand words. Fortunately, media
entertainment companies rely on the image of the Courtesan to sell music and
movies. Shakira in the music video “Hips Don’t Lie”, and Beyonce in the music
video “Naughty Girl” embody types of Courtesans. Jennifer Lopez’s music video
“Ain’t It Funny” shows the transformation of Lopez from an L.A. girl into a Courtesan fantasy figure.
After watching these videos you’ll have at least a superficial visual of the
Courtesan archetype (videos available at iTunes or Yahoo! Music).
Now, not all Courtesans are alike. The following are three additional
variations you can train a girl for.
The Siren - Men are easily hypnotized by appearances, for they have a
weakness for the visual. The Siren’s physical qualities on a man have the same
effect as the movement of a cape on a bull. The Siren places more emphasis on
hair, nails, clothing, and makeup than the typical Courtesan. Her goal is to
appear magical and supernatural to stimulate a man’s desire. The Siren is not
necessarily the most naturally beautiful woman, but she knows how to dress and
peacock to create the illusion of a goddess-like appearance.
The Accomplice - The Accomplice is the bisexual girl who helps the Rake or
Natural man find and seduce other women for threesomes and moresomes. The
Accomplice may also accompany her man in the swinging scene. Since 90% of women
are bisexual, most women can be Accomplices in addition to being Courtesans.
Accomplices may be the shy, quiet type, working quietly in the background and
letting the man lead the seduction, or she may be the social extravert,
actively gaming girls.
The Rake – Yes, women can be Rakes too, although they are the rarest type of
Courtesan. The Rake is a woman who is fiercely bisexual and actively enjoys the
hunt. She’s a woman of action, and doesn’t need a man to lead the way when it
comes to seducing women. She embodies many of the qualities of the male Rake in
that she’s unrestrained, devoted to pleasure, smart and in many ways
calculating. For the energy of the female Rake, take a look at Avril Lavigne’s
“Girlfriend” music video.
So a “Perfect 10” can be found just about anywhere. Any woman with the
proper makeup, clothes, hair, nails, and general peacocking can look beautiful.
And any woman with the proper sexual training to be uninhibited, sexually
unrestrained, a visual performer, and well versed in fantasy roles and sexual
techniques will rock a man’s world and keep him coming back for more.
It is up to you to train the women you meet, and she can become way hotter
than any ready-made “Perfect 10” you may find on the street or in a fancy club.
Some of my future news casts will be devoted to exercises on how to train
any woman to become your ideal version of the Courtesan. After all, seduction
doesn’t end at the lay, it is only beginning.
In the meantime, you can work on yourself – the kind of man who is
comfortable with sexual abundance and is comfortable having beautiful women in
his life. For raw information on what to do, you need my Seduction Science System, 3rd
Edition. It has all of my theories and techniques compiled into one easy
system for your convenience, so that you can be out meeting women and having
success with them, right away. Click here to read more about
it and make for yourself an informed decision.
Until next time,
Derek Vitalio
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